Asking for Help

is really hard.  You don't want to look stupid or needy.  You don't want to be in someone else's debt.  You don't trust that the help you get will be the help you need.  The list goes on and on. To be sure, sometimes you will look stupid, and you might not get the help you need.  More often, however, asking for help makes you look pretty smart - and brave.  That's right, smart.  That's because you're willing to admit to others that you don't know everything, that you don't have all the answers.  I also said "brave"; everyone else finds it hard to ask for help too.  Go ahead and ask for help.  Just don't forget to give help too.;)